Friday, August 1, 2008

Friendship that counts.....

I thought this was the end of our friendship...coz were facing small conflict like misunderstanding..., shes good to me and of corz I to her, she smiles..., laughs at my jokes..., try to understand me.., ahmmmmm...gives empathy. One time she enters my office and says .. "why your always laughs at me when you see me.., is there somethig wrong with my face.." I said.. nothing coz it was my habit to smile also with a person who wears a smile..heheheh.. I let her sit in a chair and ok...go on ...do what you wanna do... Shes typing her resume and I was impressed by her sample of it..its a curriculum vitae..nice and impressive style of format.. clean and awesome., so tidy. After she done she said to me ..ahhmm im finished.. "Ahh ..ok lets check it " I said.. its ok now and it was nice format haaa...very good..impressive. After that i didnt save it again in the PC's document coz i thought she saves it already there...it was my fault and after that i check..if her document is ok now in my server....but i found.., the one page only saves there.. I go back to her place and i check again her work but in unpleasant situation i cant open her document. She says what happen O God..i took an hour to finished tha and it turn into nothing.. O c'mon it must not.....O my God please make a way to retrieve it... "oohh Ok im trying Ok..." Next option i said ...do you have still time right... and our next solution is to type it again....
I let her tarnsfer to another computer and she said ok... The olny one thing i wrote this to my blog bcoz i cant forget what she says..."If your not my friend you'll have an embarrassment here now..." OMG .. I understand why... coz of her anger ...i concluded. I try to ignore what she says and still try to continue my work on my table...I feel hurt by what she says..but i said to my self another phase of our friendship here that counts..i must not be angry with her..work is work and my personal life is separate here...I know that she feels that I'm not ok with those words i hear from her. That what friendship and bonds are connected..when someone of your feriends get hurt of corz you can feel also what his/her feelings. On the other side she has a nice sense and nice person...still there am I helped her assist her in her resume to finish. Well after all our friendship still there....that exist..suddenly she tells me bout here family background..., what she did..., coz shes no work as of now and she said she gives up everything just for her loving mother suffers from a pain before..., it must be confidential for her... the end.